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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I’m really sorry you are going through this. How violating and heartbreaking. The ambiguity of the situation must compound your distress. Know that you deserve support and nurturing regardless of how you feel. I hope you can find a trusted person to discuss this with. I think you do need to start marriage counseling with your husband. This is a major breach of trust at the least. A counselor can help you both — help him to take responsibility, help you not to blame yourself. You have a lot on your shoulders. Please don’t take the judgment of strangers to heart. Understand they may have their own projections and experiences that lead them to say X or Y. I do think calling a hotline with trained counselors could help. And getting a therapist trained in trauma and women’s issues. Take care of yourself.[/quote]
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