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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn’t post this on social media but I would strongly consider telling absolutely everyone I was “close” to—including both sets of parents—that it had happened. I am so sorry, OP. You did not deserve this. The idea that this guy had you already so pressured about sex that you’ve had intercourse that many times in two months after giving birth kind of makes me want to puke…on him. [/quote] I'm not sure this would be helpful. You don't know what their reaction will be, it may not be supportive. It could be blaming, denying and minimizing as some posters have been. I'd reach out to a hotline this weekend and find a therapist from a dv or sexual violence org for the longer term. Take care, OP. The trauma you are feeling is real and warranted. A fundamental trust and sense of safety was violated by your DH of all people. [/quote]
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