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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He raped you. Marital rape is a real thing. It’s a crime. It’s not being a little pushy.

Also, when you’re postpartum you’re not even supposed to have sex at all until at least 6 weeks after giving birth, so you saying you’ve already had sex 5-6 times and your baby is only 2 months old is already troubling.

My husband and I have a very active sex life normally (4-5x per week is typical for us under normal circumstances) but we didn’t have sex at all from the time I gave birth until 8 weeks (first baby) and 10 weeks (2nd baby) when I was postpartum and our frequency was very low throughout the whole time I was nursing (I nursed each baby til 18 months old) because I was sore, bleeding, recovering, engorged and painful breasts, hormonal, etc we were both exhausted.

[b]I think what your husband did is beyond awful at any time and even worse when you’re postpartum and nursing. And then even worse that he didn’t acknowledge and own up to it and profusely apologize and offer to quit drinking and go to therapy when you confronted him.[/b][/quote]

So sorry, OP. Consider speaking with someone from a DV or sexual violence hotline to process a bit and perhaps get resources local to you. [/quote]

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