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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think that’s the best thing about being a modern woman, you get to choose what you want to do!  I changed my last name because I though my husband’s was more interesting than my maiden name.[/quote]

I have a very feminist child and I asked her if she wishes she had my maiden name as her surname. She wrinkled her nose and said “I don’t love my last name but thank you for not giving me yours.”

Seriously I couldn’t wait to get a different last name. My brother actually dislikes it too and he changed his to our mom’s last name. Its not terrible, like Buttkiss or something, but still.

I think that there is a patriarchal element to it for sure but I also think that making it a pet issue like some women do is a little odd, tbh. What about the wage gap? Paid parental leave? Abortion rights? Women in Gaza? Not saying we can’t care about multiple things at a time but I feel like judging women for taking their husband’s surname (like some women do) is weird and inappropriate. [/quote]

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