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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like men don't see you as serious relationship material. Instead they see you as a sexual layup.

When meeting a woman, most men know right away whether she is relationship or hookup. You need to get sorted into the former in men's mental algorithm.[/quote]

Men on dating apps generally are not looking for a serious relationship. [/quote]

So where can we find men who are looking for something serious? Unfortunately society made us use those stupid apps and I personally I am fed up I screen them through text and FaceTime and still get those pigs [/quote]

We live in the hookup and instant gratification era. Recycling bfs/gfs is totally okay, hooking up endlessly is totally okay as well. Men are not necessarily to blame. They are finding equally willing women. It’s unfortunate because I feel like some women have been pushed to be promiscuous like men. Honestly as a man I think the women taking part in this hookup culture have been pushed into it. Im sure some women will come hard at me for saying  this. [/quote]

I agree: women have been coerced into hooking up under the guise of “liberation,” when really it only benefits low effort men.  Women are discarded for treating sexuality as precious or sacred or something they don’t want to do quickly with randoms.  It’s still entirely centered around male desire - it’s gross and destabilizing.

Further I think the apps lead to a very dehumanized view of our fellow people. Keep in mind that the apps are invested in keeping people single and looking - that is their entire business model.[/quote]

Time travel is possible!  Posting from the Victorian era.  Kudos![/quote]

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