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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was in a similar situation but had success by being enthusiastic about sexual activity but within my comfort zone, which stopped short of doing everything before having a commitment but didn't leave the man frustrated. Have you tried this? If you don't engage at all, most men are going to move on, especially at your age.[/quote]

Could you please elaborate ? Did you have PIV with condom and no O, or just a handjob? [/quote]

Just making out and using our hands (nothing penetrative) has been satisfying enough to keep dating to see if we're relationship material. And it actually builds the desire as well as gets over some of the initial awkwardness before we take it further. If all goes well, I'll take it to the next level once I know we're in a relationship and not just having the initial, exploratory dates.

I know this may sound like high school to some, but it has worked out pretty well for me because if a guy won't wait until I'm ready, even though I'm not leaving him totally frustrated, then we're probably not right for each other.

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Do you make them finish? Sorry not sure how this would look like, is he undressed? [/quote]

Yes, of course. That is the point. He doesn't undress completely, you just get it out of his pants and make sure he gets off. I'll wait to go further until we've had several more dates and see where things are going.

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Couple issues I personally see with this : 1. Not all men particular 45+ would certainly finish from a hand job. Or it may take too long making things even more awkward 2 I kinda still don’t want to deal with Ps of barely known men on date 1-3. I usually only warm up for a good French kiss by date 3, if he’s nice with me.
Maybe I’m leaving them frustrated by just having a good kiss without touching things in the pants. But if I don’t O during the kisses and touch, which should he be pissed for not getting off ? [/quote]

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