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[quote=Anonymous][quote]And this why American families have so many mental health issues. Everyone is selfish and no respect for tradition and elders. No reason their trip can’t start the next day or even that evening

You think subsuming your preferences to comply with traditions you didn't choose or care about in order to appease others improves mental health?[/quote]

I hear you. But breaking traditions that important to people you love sends the message that you don't care about them. That hurt stays with people. So then when you need them, they are less willing to help out.  And the relationship just keeps on breaking down bit by bit until there's nothing left but hurt and maybe regret. So sometimes you wait 2 days to start your vacation because while your mental health is important, so is your mother or mother-in-law's feelings.  Now if there is abuse or if the relationship is already completely broken, then enjoy your xmas on the beach.  You have to weigh both sides and sometimes choose the unselfish thing.[/quote]

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