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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think there are two kinds of men:

1.  Men who have a list;

2.  Men who meet a woman and decide she is everything on his list.

I think my husband was #2.  I can’t see the man making a list even if his life depended on it.  I think #2 might be easier to live with.[/quote]

How do you differentiate between having a list and just basic qualifications?  For example, I only dated women attending college like me.  I wanted someone that had basic sense about budgeting/financial responsibility.  I wouldn't say my requirements were long but it wasn't an open-ended thing either.  Surely even your DH had dealbreakers back then.[/quote]

I think he had a “list” in that there were just the most basic requirements- college educated, same religion as him, decent family.  I think that’s where DH’s list ended and he could have married another woman who was completely different than me if she had crossed his path.  Men here who are like: “must love sex and also the back door,” are reaching a level of specificity that I think might make them more difficult as partners.  A lot of men are easygoing and easier to keep happy.[/quote]

I can see how a woman not liking sex would be a deal breaker for some men.  I think that the back door guy probably just wants someone who is kinky.  If she didn’t like that particular thing but was into sex parties or BDSM or something, he would probably like that too.

I have three tween/teen sons, and I think that two of them will be much happier if they marry women who like sex.  They are the kind of boys who are always hugging and snuggling with me or wrestling with their dad or their friends.  They just like touching a lot and have since they were really little.  If either of them end up in one of these sexless, touchless marriages that people post about on here, they will be miserable.

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Not a great predictor!  My husband is very snuggly and physically affectionate but not very into sex.  A woman with a low libido would have been terribly happy with him.[/quote]

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