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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They are NOT my family. I am friendly and kind but would not force more interaction with hem than DH wants and definitely will NOT take over holiday gifts buying, schedule negotiation and all correspondence. No way in hell Just like kids get married. I don't plan to deal with my son and daughter-in-law.... I plan to deal with my children. I also don't plan to bring me in-laws and relationship I have with my children. [/quote] Perfect example of why ILs don't get along. [/quote] DP. Your internalized misogyny is showing. It's not enough for the PP to be friendly and kind, you demand more. Yet, you don't demand this from men in relationships.[/quote] +1 This is MIL - sons il law can do what they want, when they want, but daughters in law are under this tiny, filthy microscope, and have to march to mens drum? LOL no. [/quote] What the hell are you even talking about. I am not talking about misogony. I am talking about the poster who doesn’t think of her inlaws as family. That’s exactly why you don’t have a good relationship with them. I’d love for my in-laws to treat me like I am family instead of “just the person married to their child or sibling”. I’ve spent 20+ years with my spouse and I don’t think my in-laws could tell you much, if anything about me. [/quote]
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