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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Our issues were truly because my husband never stepped up to manage his parents (pushy mother and step father) when we were married, and I did it all for many many years. I mean, all hosting, great meals, butt kissing. Whenever they wanted to come I rolled out the red carpet and they came A LOT. After our third baby, I told him I can’t do it anymore with them and he has to take over the communication and hosting, and that set off a nuclear bomb the likes of which I never expected was hiding under the surface of my MIL all those years. Turns out, [b]she only likes me and wants to have a relationship with me if I’m kissing her butt and she’s controlling me. Otherwise, I’m worse than dirt. [/b] It was pretty shocking and is still creating ripples in our 16 year marriage. [/quote] +1 This worship the oversized and unrelenting egos thing - how they did to their DH - does not fly in this day and age. Sorry, not sorry, Boomers and older![/quote]
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