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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You want a real man, but society today frowns on real men, OP. Welcome to the great compromise. This is what women wanted.[/quote]

Portions of society frown on it.

Enroll your son in tackle football.  And then wrestling in the winter.  And then lax or baseball in the spring.

Take him somewhere he can learn to fish or hunt.

Real, true masculine men exist.  Not the fake masculinity.  But the real one.  Where men understand their responsibility to the next generation.  Where they teach values and self-sufficiency.  Where your son learn mental resiliency, toughness, and compassion.

Let your boy be the boy he is, assuming that you're asking bc he's different than his father [/quote]

My answer would be: MOVE OUT OF THE BIZARRE WASH DC BUBBLE

Real men galore in the other areas and states. They seek work/life balance, are in shape, run businesses, coach kids sports teams, attend professional and kids sports games, BBQ meat and make pies, go to church & brunch every Sunday, spend time with extended family, review their kids’ grades work, maintain the yard and vehicles.

And a little more golf and tailgating before college games.

But otherwise it’s all good.

Lots of double dates too now that the kids are older and can stay home. Going to a speakeasy soon with some neighbors. [/quote]

Idk if I equate ‘real men’ with ‘church’[/quote]

Sorry you have no one of any faith in your life or neighborhood.

Lots of well-rounded “real men” and their families involved and going to synagogues, Hindu temples, Baptist churches, Catholic Churches, Presbyterian churches, episcopal churches, Lutheran churches, Methodist churches, Unitarian churches, etc.

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I couldn't respect a grown man who believes in fairy tales.[/quote]

Sounds like you never took a core liberal arts college class.

Bible, Koran and Torah are basically the history books of mankind.

Human nature is naturally greedy.

Religion is various communities attempts to counter greed and selfishness. Put something before yourself and material things. Have a sense of community. Have community goals and support. Life is hard, this will help.

Sure some extremism interpretation will create a new human god figure and goal, but those get sussed out for that they are. More human greed.

Anyways, go take a philosophy class as well.  You haven’t really thought through much you claim. Things a common problem with some shallow college grads and activists right now. [/quote]

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