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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s remarkable to me how many people will absolutely ignore profound ethical problems in their drive to acquire a child. Just appalling. [/quote]

It’s remarkable to me how many people are convinced that if someone doesn’t agree with their position, that person must be [i]absolutely ignoring profound ethical problems[/i]. It can’t possibly be true that someone else has looked at the same set of facts and come to a different conclusion.

Are you the “DNA dolly” poster? Or are you just similarly arrogant and entrenched in your own sense of absolute righteousness?[/quote]

It’s got to be the same couple of people posting on here. I personally know five families who used surrogates. Three heterosexual couples and two sets of gay dads. In real life, I never heard one word of gossip or judgment from the people who knew them. It was well accepted by everyone in the community, even by the evangelical types I thought might judge (especially the gays.) I have no knowledge of anyone thinking poorly of these personal choices. [/quote]

You think people say everything they think?! You're so naive. If I knew someone using a surrogate I would smile and say congratulations, but I think it is actually appalling and unethical. [/quote]

PP here. Yes, and then you’d run to talk about them behind their back. That didn’t happen around the people I knew who used surrogates. No one said anything nasty behind their backs. That’s one of the many reasons I’m surprised by the judgment on this board. Maybe I just know better, less opinionated, less self-righteous people who mind their own business?[/quote]

Nope. I didn't gossip with anyone. I have no idea what other people think, so I wasn't going to bring it up and offend someone.

I know you don't want to believe me but people can and do disagree but keep it to themselves.[/quote]

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