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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a happily married man I will not encourage any man to be married. Just because I am happily married does not mean I am Getting a * good deal* like women claim. They always bring up the same set of things that they do us. Here is the deal it’s just not true. Yes our mothers offered all those perks to our dads. Our wives are not. And I am glad they are not because we should be contributing equally to everything. But women today (and in a way I feel bad) are under immense pressure from society (or maybe feminists ) to seek their own happiness (which is good) and men as a result are under a microscope. [/quote] I did everything on that list every week except meals and those we ordered from a company. I also taught the kids and earned half the money. I don't understand what men want women to be these days. [b]Women are doing most of the working in the US now and the childrearing. [/b]What exactly do men bring to the table comparatively if and I repeat if they aren't making more than the median income? The median income is about $150k around here I believe. What does a guy making say $100k bring to a marriage compared to a woman making the same?[/quote] This actually isn't true. Reputable studies show that in married couples, men do more work overall when taking into account work outside and inside the home. Look up the Pew studies on working. Women work more hours on average in the home, which is why it seems to women that they do more work--because they don't see the greater amount of work being done by men outside of the house. Of course, this is just averages, and I'm sure we'll get lots of anecdotal responses here from women who swear they do so much more than their husbands.[/quote] Post the study. Love to know the breakdown of office work, housework, kid work, personal time, sleep, sitting on a plane, eating. I know what it’s in our two income hosuehold. [/quote]
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