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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d take them over there on an exploration trip and pull out ALL the stops and get them all the information. We’d tour schools together, see housing options, etc. I would even try to introduce them to some kids their age, ideally other expats, who could tell them what it’s like to live there.

I would paint the most realistic and optimistic picture of what life would look like and give them a taste of it.

If they really wanted to go and the family was all on board, then we’d do it. [/quote]

This, so much this.  This all day and every day.

Unless you and DH have lived in Singapore yourselves (and I hear it's a very cool place from many who travel there), you yourselves have NO IDEA what you'd be moving them into. Do your homework, and then all of you go on a visit to feel it out.

Just cold moving, one day they're here and then they have a new life, with no sense of what you're choosing for your kids... sounds like a horrible idea.[/quote]

Great. Honestly, that is your next biggest step.  Also, you know your kids and their personalities.  A move like that would be a non-issue for some kids; a great adventure for some others; and the most traumatic, awful disruption and incredibly painful to adjust to for still more kids.  Think about how your kids handle change and then yes, TALK TO THEM and hear their concerns, and consider those too.  Take all of that into consideration.  I kind of agree with whoever said "If your attitude is "you can handle living there for a few years" you will probably be completely overwhelmed by the move", so go ahead and do ALL your due diligence.

Op here - obviously we would not move without a very clear idea of what we are getting into and all the implications. For everyone. No one is talking about cold moving or not going to spend time there and see what it would be like. [/quote][/quote]

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