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[quote=Anonymous]Yes, it is possible. Social dynamics are complicaated and Kelly may have triggered someone in the wrong way. Ostracizing, othering, scapegoating an individual are unfortunately common social phenomena. Under the right circumstances even nice people can behave appallingly. Also, you find out a lot about people when a crisis hits. Kelly experienced a crisis (manufactured or otherwise) and the true mettle of everyone in the group was exposed as a result. And when that happens, and you see that the people who meant a lot to you really don't care about you one way or another, it can be very soul crushing. You are only responsible for your own actions. If you were normal and kind to Kelly then I would not feel guilty. If you can reach out to her and be kind now, perhaps it's not too late. [/quote]
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