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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My parents had favorites growing up and pitted the siblings against each other.  We're now in our late 30s and 40s and it's become clear that none of have functioning relationships.  It's all coming to a head this holiday season with the parts of the family no longer speaking with each other.

I don't think there's any way we'll ever really be a family again.  The favored siblings are narcissistic.  The disfavored siblings are angry and hurt, cutting themselves off from the family.  My parents continue to escalate and play favorites.  Apparently the new boundaries by the hurt siblings have my mom saying she wants to die, but it's unclear if she's really suicidal or if it's more manipulation.

It's so hard to decide to walk away from the mess and give up on having a family (and grandparents for your kids) or to keep engaging with the endless drama, bullying, favortism, and hurt feelings.  Partial boundaries haven't worked.[/quote]

I’m so sorry. I almost could have written this. My alcoholic mother and stepfather created that kind of dynamic in our family too. They both passed away, but their damage lingers on: my sister and I no longer speak despite years of trying very hard. [/quote]

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