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[quote=Anonymous]The best way to handle this: You stand down. No engagement unless she reaches out. Then you suggest grabbing coffee…just the two of you. Exchange pleasantries, etc. and eventually say, “Hey, I wanted to let you know that Dave saw the letter you signed since he’s an alum. Needless to say, it hurt him. And I’d be lying if I said it didn’t surprise me. I don’t want to get into a whole big thing, but I’m wondering if you feel comfortable talking about this? I’m curious what prompted you to sign it?” Then be silent. Give her time to explain. Don’t interrupt. Just listen. Discuss. I suspect you two can salvage your friendship on some level assuming you want to. But I don’t think you can vacation together with your husband, so gently flag that. [/quote]
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