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[quote=Anonymous]Haven't read the whole thread but my husband and I have a policy that we each handle our primary family. So this wouldn't happen this way in our house because he would have to deal w/ his parents' complaints and requests. It doesn't work that cleanly of course, but your husband not having your back in this, and not managing more of the relationship w/ his parents, is the issue. It's a marital one - not an inlaw one. Tell your inlaws that if your husband chose to spend time with them they'd waaaay exceed the time the kids get w/ your parents. But you're at your limit. Period. Then tell them to stop making snarky comments to your kids as though they only have one parent. It would infuriate me.[/quote]
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