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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would be petty and stop bringing the kids to my in-laws. DH can take them if he feels that relationship is important. They already feel you favor your family, so might as well do that all the way. [/quote]

That's the point... she expects her in-laws to visit them, while she takes her kids to visit her parents.  They are expressing frustration that they never get to host the kids.  But I do agree that passive aggressive comments to the kids is not the smart way to address that.[/quote]

Why can't her husband take the kids to see his parents? Why is it on her? [/quote]

Because he's working his a$$ off to support her staying home with three kids. OP has no trouble spending the money of course. [/quote]

The above is your problem, OP.

You and your DH have decided that the money he brings in is more valuable than everything you do. So you are always feeling like you don't do enough.

And his comments about this issue with his parents confirm that this is how he feels too.

You made your bed, you lie on it.[/quote]

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