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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OMG I can't get past page two of this thread.  Who the heck are you people.  The kind of conversation OP had with the kids was the kind of thing that happens with normal healthy people all the time!  Saying aw I was hoping to watch that with you is not damaging to kids, guilt tripping or whatever nonsense you PPs are going on about?  WTF?

OP, your husband is totally wrong.
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No it’s not normal. Oh dang catch me up is normal.

But that’s our show pick a different one to watch with dad is f’d up.[/quote]

OP here

I did not say that’s our show. I said oh, I wish you had waited to watch that with me. When they said dad said we could watch, I said why don’t you pick a different show to do with him? To which they said yeah sure! We always watch X with him. I said great show. End of conversation.

Re: context, dad has insisted that his activities with them are his and I’m not to interrupt or join in or take them to do stuff that is “his” stuff. So I started watching my own show with them.

Anyway. There are much [/quote]

So, in other words, you’re requiring your kids to watch a different show when they are with their father. Do you realize how insane that is?

The fact that you said oh, I wish you would’ve waited for me and you think that isn’t synonymous with oh, that’s our show pick a different one for dad.

Listen, I don’t give a s**t if your husband‘s in a hole or not. Maybe you’ll stay together maybe you’ll divorce it doesn’t matter. But your communications skills and your controlling attitude is going to make your children hate you.

Doesn’t fall far from the tree, which do you have anxiety or ADHD or both?[/quote]

Look your husband found the thread! [/quote]

For real. I actually had a similar situation last week when the kids said dad didn’t want us to watch Harry Potter 2 w/o him. It’s really weird that people are making this out to be some controlling terrible thing. I’ll gladly wait to watch show or movie so a family member can join in.

Anyway, OP is not married to a reasonable person and should, therefore, be extremely cautious about how she communicates anything because it sounds like he will use anything to justify an attack. [/quote]

It goes two ways. She is needling him and undermining him while he is taking care of the kids. [/quote]

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