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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-3-031-07222-2_7

SF has groomed the whole family, including ILs. Being in that environment with moms being groped and no one saying anything puts the kids at higher risk not only from SF but from any predator.

I had a coworker who married into a family where the groping of DILs took place, etc., as you describe, OP, there had also been csa in her H's family. She ended up divorced before having any kids. She told a story about the FIL getting handsy with DILs at Easter dinner, at the table, kids and elderly all present, including coworker's parents, who were angry and upset the first time. Less the second. It all desensitizes.

OP is the healthiest one. [/quote]

That's not grooming. That's molesting. Grooming is the friendly overtures to facilitate access.[/quote]

It is grooming of the observers who learn to follow the group code of doing nothing and it creates opportunities for further assaults on others who are present. Way to divert the thread from an uncomfortable topic to your policing of language though. [/quote]

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