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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My stepdad sexually abused me from age 12 to age 17.  My brother maintains a relationship with my mother and stepdad. My brother has 3 daughters.

Two years ago, I shared with my brother the details of the sexual abuse committed by my stepdad so he could protect his children.

I recently learned that two weeks ago, my brother and his wife took their kids to visit my parents and spent the weekend there, spending the night in my parent’s house.

I want to ask them what measures they take to keep their kids safe, but I am afraid that even raising the question might alienate them. Is there a way to ask this question without starting a huge kerfuffle?[/quote]

Why haven't you reported your stepdad,?  You know perfectly well that he's molesting another child.  Did your mother know and do nothing?[/quote]

OP, has the statute of limitations expired where the csa occurred?

PP, know that even if it is possible to convict SF at this time, it often does not cause others in the sick family system to keep kids away. Upthread someone posted that in her family the wife of such a man (and abusers can be women, too) took him back after he was released from a 1 yr jail stint. [/quote]

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