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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Obvious boy names for girls is a low class southern thing [/quote] That, and a signal that the parent is sexist but too dumb to realize it. Tell me OP, would you name your boy Emma, Rose, or Charlotte?[/quote] To be fair, none of those names are considered gender neutral at all. Hunter is becoming more common for girls, : https://www.thebump.com/b/hunter-baby-name#chart Think throwing sexism around is a bit much here. Overall I don't disagree with your implicit statement that more "boy" names have become gender neutral than girl names. And, I'm sure you're right there is a lot to unpack as to why that is the case...but it's a leap to call OP an ignorant sexist. [/quote] Hunter is not a gender neutral name. As recently as 2022, Hunter is ~10x more common on males. In 2010, ~20x more common for boys. And so on. It’s not a lot to unpack to understand why parents are happy to name their girls male names like Hunter when they never do the equivalent for their boys. [/quote] I'm sorry you're uncomfortable when parents deviate from gender stereotypes when naming their child. [/quote] NP but the issue is the deviation only goes in one direction. You're not into breaking gender stereotypes, you just have internalized a lot of terrible messaging about femininity.[/quote] I agree and am happy someone is pointing this out. I actually gave my daughter a truly sex-neutral name (I think it’s got about a 50:50 distribution), but just because it was the only name we agreed on and didn’t give it much thought. [b]Now, as a gender critical feminist, I am worried people might think this[/b] about us and her name because it’s a legitimate criticism.[/quote] An insecure gender-critical feminist? Groundbreaking. [/quote] Insecure about ONE issue does not mean insecure in general or about my feminism. [b]I doubt you’ve ever met a single gender critical feminist in real life and have no idea what they/we are like.[/b][/quote] DP. I can almost guarantee that is true 😂 in unrelated news: my friends are normal [/quote]
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