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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To be fair, OP's son has had several very serious girlfriends and he is only 25 so like changes one every year. Its okay if they don't want to invite someone they don't know to a long family trip. Its not like she is his steady girlfriend of 3-4 years from college and its just a matter of time they get hitched.

That being said, they should invite him and let him know that if he wants to invite her and she wants to come along, she is welcome to book her flight and join, all other expenses are covered. If money isn't a big issue then just pay for the flight as well.

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Oh please.  The real issue isn’t the money.  It’s that OP doesn’t want her son bringing any one with him.  And that shipped has sailed.  He’s 25, an adult, will always have a girlfriend from now on, and isn’t monmy’s little boy.  [/quote]

So where is the line for you?  If he has been dating someone for five months, should she be invite?  How about five weeks?[/quote]

We don’t need to dwell in hypotheticals.  Here we have a 25 year old living with his GF of several months.  That’s the reality we are living with.[/quote]

But you said "he will always have a girlfriend" so I assume that was a relevant point.  So the line is anybody that the son would refer to as his girlfriend gets included?[/quote]

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