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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am suprised so many people think it is unreasonable to chat with your parents when they are dropping something off / picking something up. If my husband was upset because my parents stopped by to drop something off and we ended up chatting for a bit - that is his issue. And if he then tried to get me to leave them and bring him food and drink I would be doubly irritated. Some controlling people on this board! [/quote] A parent chatting with their child is reasonable. Expecting your DW/DIL to socialize when you weren't expected is unreasonable. [/quote] DP, I agree with you. But nobody knows the IL’s expectation. They may have been perfectly fine chatting with their son and understanding that their DIL was tired. It makes me sad that she spent time she could have been peacefully resting worrying about what her ILs thought, feeling potentially guilty, and posting about it.[/quote]
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