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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am watching a friend of mine try to juggle her aging parents and her husband's aging parents and I swear they are having the same arguments they had when they had toddlers.  "You have no idea what's involved in taking your father to the bank.  you think I can just pick him up at the nursing home and put him in the car.  I have to take all these things with me and then I have to negotiate with him about his walker, and then he needs to be home in time to have a nap."  And then her husband accuses her of whining.  He says it's no big deal because he' has never done it.

And every day after work, she has to deal with all this stuff.  And she has to remember all the old people's doctor's appointments, and their medications and whether anyone needs new pajamas -- and her husband acts like it all just magically gets done. And then her husband accuses her of whining.

And she talks about how she's exhausted and she literally never gets a break and how she doesn't have time for her own healthcare or to exercise, etc.  And then her husband accuses here of whining.

if you think it's over once your kids are self-sufficient, guess what?  It's not.  This is round two.  And
that's kind of the point -- Men just do this clueless, obliviousness number on us, and they never learn.[/quote]

Why is she managing his parents?  Let him do it.  [/quote]

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