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[quote=Anonymous]My spouse did all of this, despite being born into a LMC/poor family and being non-white. The secret: 1. Worked their tail off in school and career. Excelled at every level. 2. Didn't break the law or get in trouble in any way. Rule follower. 3. Proactively sought opportunity at every stage of life. 4. Worked multiple jobs while in school & college. 5. Did not marry young and chose a stable, reliable partner with UMC career/financial situation. 6. Did not have kids until married and financially stable. 7. Always maintained some work/life balance, allowing for fitness and travel. Goal was not to be rich, but to be secure & comfortable. 8. Got a little lucky. No serious health issues or trauma to derail. Not very complicated, but also not at all easy to achieve. [/quote]
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