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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I’m curious to know what you concluded your own role was. Can you share anything? I am in a very similar dynamic with my DH and I’ve wondered what, if anything, I may be doing to contribute to his random outbursts. [/quote] Basically (and this is only true of MY marriage, not yours), DH and I have been abusive to each other in different ways, we both cannot handle anger well. He may have random explosive anger but my anger is also there, simmering under the surface all the time, resentful for years of slights and cruelty and death by a thousand papercuts. So I was cruel too, in a “not yelling” way and sometimes by yelling as well. My marriage may end anyway, because there are some words and actions you simply cannot take back, but I think we made a pretty heroic effort to make it work and I am glad we tried. I will be able to tell my kids that I really really tried.[/quote]
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