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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had my second child earlier this year and I’m really feeling the pull to stay at home, mostly because I’m not in love with my job and our home life feels so hectic all the time because my husband and I both have those stereotypical “very busy” jobs.  (I know this won’t be popular but we would keep our nanny for a while so I would have time to devote to household things other than just childcare, so I do think staying home would improve how smoothly our lives run vs. how it is now.)

Anyways, I know there are lots of women who always post “don’t stay at home, your husband might leave you and you won’t be able to support yourself!” Which I hear and I do consider that risk.

But posting this in the money/finances section because I would really like to hear from anyone who ended up regretting staying at home because financial problems became an issue later on (not due to divorce).  This is my main fear in making the decision.

Or if everything worked out for you and your partner financially and you are very glad you decided to stay at home, please share as well![/quote]

Stayed home with 2 kids that are now in college (sophomore and senior).  Would I liked to have more money in the early years, to throw at house cleaners, better camps, better family vacations, etc, sure.  But I wouldn't trade the calm of running the house smoothly for 365 days a year.  Now I work PT at a place I started volunteering with when the kids were older.  I have the flexibility to come and go as I please, and spouse makes enough that we DO have great vacations with our older kids.   I have zero regrets[/quote]

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