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[quote=Anonymous]When my sister was on OLD she ended up going out with LOTS of married men. Every single one of them said they had an "open marriage" ...

Bullllllllshirt.

The anger I've seen poured out at the "other woman" is completely unwarrented.

Even in this thread, using terms like "pump and dump" and I've seen in other places "Cum dumpsters" and "trash humans" or a "warm hole" ... wow.

Is there no compassion for people here? I mean, even in this thread about nobody in particular the women are being demonized.

Of course it isn't right to sleep with somebody else's spouse.  But the real villian is your spouse. Not the AP. I'm not saying they are blameless, but they are not for you to blame. Your marriage, your spouse, and your actions are the only things that you need to focus on. Not the AP. Because it is your spouse seeking to cheat on you. The person sleeping with your spouse has their own sh!t to work on, for sure, and possibly their own work on their marriage or relationship. But they are not to blame for anything going wrong in your marriage. Not a thing. Whomever said the AP is a placeholder is right. They are so irrelevant to your marital problems.

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