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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Another example of him blowing up at me. He asked me to buy cheap flights for our long haul travel. I looked and found and bought the flights. I told him the seats we have been assigned are horrible and that we should consider selecting better seats for some extra money.

He said not to do that. I said ok. When we boarded the plane we saw that we were assigned the middle seats. We sit down and he starts complaining about how cramped he feels and is huffing and puffing. He keeps texting his mother saying he is so uncomfortable and can’t stretch his legs. His mother tells him to ask me to move to the middle and give him the aisle seat as I’m smaller.

I thought this was messed up as I get up and walk a lot during the flight and need to take bathroom breaks as I am always drinking water. I said I need to get up frequently. He said we can trade halfway through the 15 hour flight. I said ok and give him the aisle seat.

He does not give me the seat back during the ride. Then he starts complaining that I am getting up too much and ruining his sleep. I asked him if he wants to trade and he says no.

After we landed at Dulles, I told him that contrary to what he said, he did it switch the aisle seat with me and I was uncomfortable and had to keep waking him up to go to the bathroom. He gets angry and snaps, “ are you starting a fight??! I am not having this conversation!” And stone walls me in the customs line.

I was never allowed to make my point. He steam rolls me and then bullies me.[/quote]

OP, this sounds like a joyless life. Being alone with peace would be better than this. Think hard about what you want your next 10, 20, 30 years to look like and plan accordingly.

Also realize, someone this volatile may be making their own plans down the road that don't include you and you would have stayed with them for nothing.
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