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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have you posted before? This scenario sounds familiar.

Not sure what you want here. He sounds terrible. You don't have kids and have a job and your own money. Why do you put up with this?[/quote]

Op here. Perhaps. My husband has frequent irrational meltdowns where he locks himself in the office. [/quote]

I don’t know, OP. I can’t tell if you are playing some kind of victim role here or if you truly have zero empathy or ability to understand another person’s experience.  
I’m not saying that your husband was right or that his reaction was appropriate, but it’s odd that you still have no idea what he was thinking.  
People don’t get angry for no reason.  Their reasons might be stupid or delusional, but anger doesn’t just come out of nowhere.  
Maybe part of the reason he melts down is that you lack the ability to understand his perspective.  [/quote]

Op here. What is his perspective?[/quote]

You lied.  You said you were out doing one thing, and you did another. 
No one wants to be lied to, no matter how small.   [/quote]

Oh please! If I tell my husband I'm going to the gym, and then I pass a bookstore coming home and decide to browse, I did not "lie" to my husband. [/quote]

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