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[quote=Anonymous]I'm a SAHM. My DH's check goes into a joint account from which we pay all bills. All our savings accounts are joint and I know exactly how much is in them, and can transfer money in and out as needed. Why won't your DH agree to an arrangement like this? If he truly viewed you as equal partners, you would have as much say over your finances as he does. Marriage is a partnership - some divide the labor by having one working parent and one SAHP while others divide it by both splitting childcare and work outside the home. I would feel very uncomfortable with your situation. It is as though he is treating you as a child and is calling all the shots. I don't think him being stingy is the real problem. It is serious power imbalance that you should address.[/quote]
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