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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is the OP going to chase down all of her husband's affair partners? Because this particular mistress probably wasn't the first and definitely won't be the last. [b]The marriage is clearly lacking if he's screwing around on her[/b]. The "remorse" that he's showing will wear off and he'll be back on the apps looking for strange once he thinks the coast is clear. *shrug*[/quote] It is the dh who is lacking character by cheating. Op has abided his cheating and he will never leave her. It's not an ideal relationship to many of us, but it is a strong one. I couldn't stay with a cheater, but I was raised by a cheating father and a mother who put up with it. Their marriage lasted through cheating. Eventually, my dad settled down and my mom enjoyed 30 more years without him cheating. They died 3 months apart, having been married 50 years.[/quote] Someone who is completely happy and fulfilled in their marriage isn't having sex with others behind their spouse's back. Yes, the marriage is somehow lacking. OP deserves a man who doesn't lie and cheat, but her self-esteem is too low to realize that. [/quote] It is the cheater who is lacking. His infidelity is not ops fault. [/quote]
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