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[quote=Anonymous]Don't break no contact for closure - [quote][u]We are reinforcing their centrality in our lives[/u]. It is the opposite of meh. We may think we’re seeking closure to shame them, or demand accountability. They don’t see it that way. They see it as kibbles. “Isn’t that sweet? Chump can’t get over me. They’re so broken up. God, I’m fabulous. I’m sorry there isn’t enough of me to go around. Well really, I offered you a piece but you wanted the whole thing. Too bad, so sad.” Closure doesn’t exist. Well, not in the sense that they’re going to give you a reason that will make the heavens part and confer enlightenment. You do the hard work to heal yourself over time and find acceptance[/quote] https://www.chumplady.com/2023/08/dont-break-no-contact-for-closure/[/quote]
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