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[quote=Anonymous]This comes down so much the individual and I see a thread that I can really relate to. I bought it having a second child and spent many painful hours wondering what was “wrong” with me, and why I was so tapped out at one. It’s really incredible. There’s a special kind of heartache that can come when we internalize the “shoulds” of life and then can’t or don’t want to execute on them. I spent a lot of time and sometimes still feel like there’s something wrong with me that I stopped at one kid. It’s great for our family, but will he be alone at the end? This is relevant for any kind of family planning though. What “should” your family look like and then whether or not that some thing anyone wants. I find it surprising that we don’t articulate this potential dissidence more.[/quote]
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