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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]OP, I would NOT be fronting ANY money for him for utilities or anything else unless you consider it a gift and know you will never see it again.[/b] Stop throwing good money after bad, esp when you have children to support.

Stop playing armchair Oprah with this loser. Men act like this when they are having an affair.

I'd chalk this up to being a VERY drawn out lesson you still need to learn from. Maybe stay single or at least do no cohabit until your kids are grown. You wasted a LOT of time on this guy and it is going to cost you financially and cause chaos for your kids who likely will need to change schools, again. Wise up, OP. [/quote]

So after seeing everyone's feedback here about the utility situation and thinking about how to handle it all day, I went downstairs to his office to speak with him about it. I basically said something along the lines of "Since we haven't made our last utility payment on time we now have two pay for two billing cycles plus late fees. The total amount for Electric, Water and Sewer is $450. I've been asking for your credit card to pay your portion for a couple of weeks and this morning when I asked again you told me to just pay it all and you would give me the money back. Given the fact that my check engine light is on and I'm going to have to make car repairs soon I'm uncomfortable paying the $450 upfront since I may need some of this money to fix my car." I said this is a cold a stoic voice and by the time I got to the part about needing to fix my car he started becoming emotional and teary eyed. He then got up out of his office chair, walked towards me, threw his arms around me, and broke down crying. He said through muffled tears with his face pressed into my shoulder "I don't want to lose you."

WTF!? I just stood there is shock with my arms by my side and then I asked should I send the amount that we just discussed via text or are you able to write it down so that you can send the money so that I can make the payment? His response was "either way is okay with me." He then turned around to walk back to his chair and quickly ran upstairs closed the bedroom door and cried.

I also just got the notification that he sent his portion of the utilities to my bank account so I will pay the utilities today and email him a receipt for payment.[/quote]
Don’t fall for the crocodile tears. What a manipulative a$$.[/quote]

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