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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]	I’d not like this. Why is he doing this alone when he’s got a wife who may like to join him, or who would like to see him? Why does he not want you to share in this cool experience with him where nobody knows his name? Why does he need or want to be someplace where nobody knows him to partake in a legal adult activity? Just weird. Even people who consumjed pot before it became legal told their families.. if they liked their families. It wasn’t a secret, and you generally knew where they were, who they were with and what they were doing, none of this random “I’m going to stop off randomly for um just one and nobody I know better see me”. Totally strange for an adult to do when the activity is 100 percent legal and has been for decades.

My sense is that he’s either trying to see what you’ll put up with, or something more is going on, picking up women or trying to, illegal drug use, gambling something that you aren’t going to like. Either that, or he’s becoming selfish, what are you doing when he’s randomly stopping at bars? Does he know or care or does he just expect you’ve got it covered because you’re the woman and are home anyway? That’s disrespectful and would be untenable to me. Whatever is or isn’t going on, I would be sad that my husband was creating a lifestyle in which he did not want me to share with him. That would then become a marriage I no longer would want to be in.  I don’t know if that’s the answer for you, but no way would I allow this oddball behavior to continue, and while I can’t control another person, I can very much control what I do next.   
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Grabbing a quick single light beer once in a while is a “lifestyle”?[/quote]

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