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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Some examples are leaving food out in the counter all day long, never cleaning her dishes, leaving food and cups all over the place, leaving her makeup and everything all over the counters, leaving her clothes all over floor. I’m a very neat person and I’ve never dated someone so messy. [/quote]

OP here. Another thing is her awareness level is just not there. I will clean everything up ( doing it nightly) and she will eat a snack and leave everything messy again. When I ask her to clean it up, she acts bewildered like she didn’t even leave a mess.

I’m not super crazy but I do like a neat house. I make sure the kitchen is clean and things are nice and clean since I have a small condo and it can look messy easily. [/quote]

You might be super crazy…to her. This isn’t an objective measure (to a point, your girlfriend’s cleanliness standards do sound borderline hazardous). It’d a compatibility issue, not a “I’m right you’re wrong” issue.

Also I bet she has adhd. [/quote]

OP here. She doesn’t have adhd. I think she is used to others cleaning for her. She went from her mom doing everything ( her dad was also one who never cooked or cleaned) and then had a housekeeper clean for her until we moved in. She had said many times why I don’t just leave the mess for the housekeeper. I’m not leaving dishes in the sink for two weeks. That’s nasty. [/quote]

Unless she's bringing housekeeper money to the table, I'd dump her.  Honestly I probably still would because I wouldn't want my kids to be raised with this attitude - leave a trail of filth in your wake and wait for someone else to pick up after you.  That's different from inattentive or just kind of messy, it feels more like a character flaw.[/quote]

I was the kid in this scenario and resented living in squalor and having a mother who thought that home making was beneath her. Don’t do this to your future kids![/quote]

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