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Can't read the entire thread and all responses, but OP, his behaviors and attitudes sound chillingly like my friend's DH, who worked four days a week in another city (also three hours from their home) and whose terrible behaviors increased the longer he was involved with his mistress. Yes, he had another woman in the city where he worked. He wanted out of the marriage so he could be footloose with his other woman and not having to go home to a house to think about maintaining; a wife who was talking to him about real-life essentials, ike finances and kid needs; and kids (they had three) who were, well, kids, who wanted to be around their adored daddy.

Probably this got brought up earlier in the thread, but it's entirely possible your DH has an affair partner at his work location and is so damn cranky with you (and demanding you leave the house so he can be alone--that's insane) because he's done with you and DD but is too big a coward to leave you both. Sorry to be that blunt, but it's something you need to consider.

The friend's husband finally pulled the trigger on divorce when his AP got pregnant, and he left my friend and their three kids to be with the AP and the baby. That didn't last either.

If there's no AP in your DH's case, he may have the opposite issue of wanting to be a bachelor again, no responsibilities other than work, no one to answer to at night, no kid around to have to feign an interest in. Either way, AP or bachelor-wannabe, I'm sorry. [/quote]

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