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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, PP here - you have to put everything in writing. Which sounds exhausting, but literally the black and white thinking conveys to communication: "You need to stop this (behavior here) because (ramifications here)." Texts work, but use sparingly. Speak his language - pick one that he understands: ie: it will cost him time, money, etc. Being succinct is key, because they do not have empathy or seem to have or value feelings, because their birth family did not. This is a big step to being heard. HTH. It is hard when you grow up in a nice, normal, outgoing, social, kind, warm, communicative family - and you get thrown into this awful, abusive situation that you never knew existed. REALLY hard. [/quote] You can put things in writing but a lot of people that have auditory issues also difficulty remembering details from writing. Use text sparingly. One idea at a time.[/quote]
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