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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well yes, lots of men are unrealistic about it. So just tell them the truth of how much work it takes, and that will run off the ones who don't appreciate it. They may be happier with someone more naturally beautiful. [/quote] just as there aren't that many "high quality" men out there, there aren't that many "naturally beautiful" women out there who age well without putting some effort into. If the man wants you to be naturally beautiful without any effort, and you don't fit that mold, then you are sol. But, is that really the kind of man you want? I know for my DH, he'd rather enjoy going out to nice dinners with me (we are foodies) than me lose 10 lbs. He calls me beautiful even when I just get up in the morning, with blotchy skin. I don't get my nails done. I do have a decent skin care regime, including wearing sunscreen evyerday, but that's also for my vanity as much as anything else. I'm 52.[/quote] It’s arguably impossible to be naturally beautiful after 45 with no effort. If you don’t take care of your skin, eat healthy, lift weights and do at least some cardio, take care of your hair and teeth, and dress decently, you will not be beautiful, no matter how good you looked in your twenties. I know plenty of beautiful older women who wear little makeup and even rock grey hair, but they absolutely work at their glowing skin and tight bodies. [/quote] Not true. Some exceptionally beautiful women can look amazing until 55 without effort. My mom and grandma were like that. [/quote]
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