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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Having hobbies you share with friends is different from meeting your bang partner for a hook up and you know it.[/quote]

Why? Someone who golfs for 8 hours every weekend is a better parent than someone who spends say 8 hours a month with their bang partner? [/quote]

Golf isn't going to make the kids anxious that their parents are getting a divorce. A parent could even take kid to golf with them once in a while. The whole family could go golfing. Kid can be around the golf buddies on the golf course.

Funny though how you create this example where 4x as much time is spent on the golf to make it seem worse. I doubt that's true. Golf is probably not taking the parents away on overnights and trips. And when you factor in the time parent is emotionally unavailable, the affair/banging probably takes more time. [/quote]

Our golf club has a pool, tennis courts, a clubhouse with food/meals and live music every weekend. We can go as a family. We can swim and play tennis while dad golfs. We can play games and enjoy ourselves- the whole family. The kids like driving the golf cart, sneakily. We enjoy ourselves as a family while also enjoying our hobbies.

Meanwhile- the parents take turns dumping the kids off on each other and spending time, money, emotional and physical capital while banging their extramarital partners.

Why get married and have kids if you are spending hours a week banging other people while leaving your spouse and kids home? It’s really unfair to the kids. [/quote]

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