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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I guess some people are morally (i.e. blindly) opposed to adoption. That's what I gather from some of these responses. I support adoption, and the situation seems pretty normal to me.[/quote]

Not true. I support adoption and was supportive of OP before her second post. However, the more she posted, the clearer it became that she is an extremely self-involved person. I find that very off-putting; the whole adoption thing is almost irrelevant for how I see her. Because the main problem is not that OP gave a child for adoption and then refused contact years later (though each of these does tell us a little bit about OP) - it's that fact that she has absolutely no regrets not only in respect to adoption but also the second episode. In fact, she is blaming the daughter for violating the rules - not then, but at this very moment, as she prepares to reach to her! Add to this the idea of reaching her daughter to show her her photo-stream (which is already public!!) and it just becomes a bit much for me to be very supportive.[/quote]

I thought she said "not that I blame her" - where does she blame her?[/quote]

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