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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you are going to get all kinds of responses as people have very strong opinions with adoption based on their experiences.  As a mom through adoption, I adore and love our child's birthparents.  If they choose to have a closed adoption, we would fully respect that and welcome them back into our lives when they were ready.  You placed for all the right reasons and don't let any of these responses question that.  Not everyone has this burning pain and anger as I know many adoptees who don't.

I would reach out to her and say I'm sorry for not being ready for contact earlier but I was not in a position in my life to open up that window.  I want you to know I love you very much and placed you with your parents out of concern that I could not provide everything I wanted to at that time and thought you'd be best having the experiences and opportunities that I could not give you.  Your parents very much wanted you and their happiness when I placed you made me feel very comfortable in knowing I did the right thing.  I think about you every day and understand if you want or don't want contact.  I am more than happy to answer any questions you have, especially medical or any other family history questions and if you'd like a relationship, I'd welcome that too.

Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.[/quote]

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