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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"It isn't about it having to do with you. It is about character, values and morality. It is about realizing that someone puts their sexual desires ahead of their care or concern for their children. It is about realizing who someone is behind who they portray to you."

Anyone who thinks affairs are about sex is incredibly myopic.  Most of the time it is not about the sex, the sex is a byproduct.  [b]Would you cut off a freind for an EMOTIONAL affair?  If so, again, a terrible friend[/b].

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My marriage was wrecked by a former "friend" who had an emotional affair with my DH. [/b] I had a four year old and a baby and a full time job, and she was spending (it turns out) all day on the phone with my husband, having lunch with him, emailing him.... We never recovered and got divorced.

She is a horrible person.  And you think that just because my husband (probably) never put his dick in her vagina that she deserves to have friends?  If your friend was fooling around (physically or not) with someone who had an INFANT at home, you really think that is a quality human being?  Who deserves to be your friend?  [/quote]

So, it sounds like you're holding her to a different standard than your own ex-husband. I'm sorry this happened to your family, especially your children. However, your spouse and you are responsible for the state of your marriage. [/quote]

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