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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I can understand why you feel your ex/husband has disappointed you by breaking up your family when he claimed to initially be a man of God.

Just know that human nature is what it is and that your husband may have personally asked for the Lord’s forgiveness in his own manner.

By cheating on you + now moving on w/another woman - he may know he made a bad choice, but is willing to deal w/the fallout of that choice.
He may believe he has been forgiven for his actions.

It seems you think that he may only have been asking forgiveness if he repented by staying w/you but that may not be how he sees it.
He may have repented to God yet have not have chosen to remain w/you.

It just seems fundamentally that you believe the proper way for him to repent would be to remain married to you which does not seem to be what he wants now.

You have no way to gouge his relationship now w/the Lord.
Just be blessed that he is bringing your children to church w/him.
The children are what matter the most now.

I would be so annoyed at him too but if you carry this animosity around it will only make you unhappy for the rest of your life.

Please do not let it.  
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