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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to move on OP.

The sincerity of your ExDH’s faith is between him and God. He is a flawed person, as we all are, and in time your children will see him as human. He preyed on a vulnerable woman and broke up her family just as he broke up yours. Maybe he will be her person forever. Maybe he will be with her until another needy, vulnerable woman comes along and offers him the chance to rescue her. Not your problem.

You have a deep and strong faith. Your ex is taking steps to raise your children in that faith. What else do you want? If your children were vegetarians and your ex was not, but made an effort to feed them healthy vegetarian meals when in his custody - would you complain because he goes out for a burger as soon as he drops them off? Or would you prefer he fed them meat? [/quote]

Her ex does not understand the faith. He can't teach it. It must be lived.[/quote]

Should he not take them to church at all? There are other adult teachers and mentors in a church setting. OP (and you in that comment) want a level of perfection that is not possible. Do you perfectly live your faith? [/quote]

He can but it would be their relationship with God during the service, not anything to do with him. Adultery is premeditated and certainly divorce and remarriage is. The man isn't actively seeking to be a better person and admit this fault, so why wouldn't the kids just see this as all meaningless? Say the man is a convicted murderer instead that finally got out of jail but isn't sorry for the murder? Is it still beneficial that he take them to church? Perhaps, because the kids could be at church, but it has nothing to do with him. if they just went with the mom on the other weeks would it make that much of a difference? I don't think so.[/quote]

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