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[quote=Anonymous]I really didn’t want kids. My wife did. We delayed for a long time and eventually it was time to either have kids or not. I was secretly more against it than I let on. When she got pregnant I hid how disappointed I was that our old (very fun, jet setting) life was over. Fast forward a few years and I can’t imagine going back. It was a rough transition and I do miss the ability to jump on a plane with a few days notice or just go out to dinner after work with my wife or others and not have anything to figure out. I stepped up immediately out of a sense of duty and eventually because I really wanted to. No one could tell ny original concerns because I am extremely good at masking my feelings and I know how to handle them. But I felt devastated at the time and now it seems so silly. I think a lot of people are like this but won’t admit it, even anonymously.[/quote]
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