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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes.  I did.  So I broke it off (twice!).  It was painful but falling in love with him was not what I was looking for.[/quote]

How did he take it? Twice rejected. [/quote]

Sounds like typical dramatic affair partner BS between 2 histrionics that need drama. Since he’s a dude I’m sure he just got on an app and banged someone in “the breaks”.[/quote]

Probably?  I think he did like the drama I provided, he complained that everything about his marriage was sort of dead.  Whether that’s true or not, I don’t know.

I love him but I saw how much he loved his children and I love him enough that I knew that staying in his life would ultimately hurt them.  Whether he is off banging other women now, I don’t know, probably, but there was 0 chance that he would work things out with his wife and give his kids the dad they deserve as long as he and I were “friends,” with or without sex.

He kept coming back for more no matter what I said or did.  And I was growing more and more attached to him.  I knew this would end poorly for innocent people so I let him go and went to therapy.[/quote]

Why were you not looking to fall in love?  You don’t hear much about APs being sympathetic to a marriage or they wouldn’t be involved with the man in the first place. Unless maybe you are married yourself and had no plans to leave?  [/quote]

I’m married and he and I both made it very clear early on that we were not interested in disrupting each other’s lives in any way.  We both wanted sex/fun.  Then I caught feelings.  Affairs are immoral and stupid, that’s my lesson for 2023 kids.[/quote]

Did your husband find out?  Did the ap end it?[/quote]

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